Obsession about celebrities

I ask myself why is there so much obsession on celebrities. We tend to focus on their achievement rather than learning from the obstacles  they faced towards succeeding,and how they won the battle. Every celebrity had to start somewhere. They had their downfalls.

I always pass a joke and say to people  we are all celebrities. Some look at me with shock. The difference between us and  them is that they appear on television, magazines and we listen to them on radio.  What makes us clebrities is our uniqueness. As a twin, I could speak like my sister, walk like her but  I will never be her. 

Celebrities are human, we went to school with them, we used to stand at the corners with them, we went to church with them, we even shared and rented flats with them. They were our neighbours and still are. 

We identify too much with them to a point where we loose ourselves in the process. That leads to obsession.We are all born unique and different. There is nothing wrong with being a fan, seeing a celebritiy as a mentor, but you cannot be that person. All you can do is learn from celebrities and move on.

STOP shadowing celebrities, Live your life. You are an ORIGIONAL born to CREATE!

Prepare for war!

Being in the world means war. Are you prepared to fight? Do you know why the fight? Any idea of what you are fighting for? Do you believe that you can win?

What many people are doing is just fighting. There are those who are fighting but they do not know why they fight. There are those who want to fight but the do not have weapons. Prepare for war. You cannot go for war without  a weapon or the right weapon!

Weapons needed to win in the world:-

• In the world today you need a weapon called faith
• You need a weapon called self belief
• You need a weapon called knowledge
• You need a weapon called confidence
• You need a weapon called embracing change
• You need aweapon called moving on
• You need a weapon called creativity
• You need a weapon called focus
• You need a weapon called courage

• You need a weapon called love
• You need aweapon called persevearance
• You need a weapon called patience
• You need a weapon called networking
• You need to understand your environment so that you choose the right weapon

Having said all this you choose which weapon will work during the war. If you are not prepared for war you are simply accepting defeat without fighting.

Winning is not for cowards!!      
The secret is in preparation!!

Thats
BT Molote

Potential is what we all have!

Motivation is an intrinsic response, it comes from the inside and cannot be imposed from the outside. Motivation comes from wanting to do something from one's own free will. If you are free you can choose to do something.

Dr John Tibane define potential as " energy waiting to be released"

Dictionary definition :-

POTENTIAL?

Adjective

a. possible but not yet actual: potential buyers

b. capable of being or becoming; latent: potential danger

We must have VISION TO SEE our potential, this means that potential must be discovered


And FAITH TO BELIEVE that we can; it will be in vain not to believe in your dream, own it and publisize it!
Then COURAGE TO ACT with conviction, this means that we need to develop the potential we already have.  Be passionate about your dream. Know the in's and out's of it.

To become what GOD MEANT us to be! this means that we should demonstrate what we are capable of , understand our ablity and know our grounds.
 
The world is waiting for your energy to be released. Generations are waiting to read about a legacy you had created.

Life

Life is fair


Life is sweet

Life is worth living

Life must be understood

Life not lived is a wasted sperm

Life without challenges is like a day without a night

Life not experienced is like playing soccer at a tennis cord

Living without a purpose is like telling a new born baby about South African history

Live your life NOW!

Relationships

Relationships that are based on love not material have a strong foundation


Relationships that have respect,love and hope have a chance of lasting for eternity

Relationships that operate without a plan do not have a future

Relationships that doesnt have trust never survive

Relationships that doesnt have open communication go down the drain

Relationships that are God fearing are blessed

Relationships that have JESUS as a leader always excel.

Well being?

If we should ask single unemployed women what well being means, I think all of us would guess her answer “A little food” and “A little security” But that is not the end of the story. As soon as we satisfy our basic needs and the euphoria of the celebration has faded away, we discover that there is still something wrong, we feel a lack, we feel dissatisfaction.

Well being is the ability to balance between work, families, health, and social relationship, psychological and spiritual life. There is no “one size fits all” balance. The right balance for me today may be different tomorrow. The right balance when I am single will be different when I get married or have children and lastly the right balance will be different when I start a new career versus when I am near retirement.

Well being means pride, satisfaction, joy, celebration, love and a sense of belonging.

Well being is about establishing your priorities, examining them and setting boundaries. Only you can restore the equilibrium to your life style.

Take small steps to BIG changes. Your well being is your responsibility. Do it now, do it again, it’s never too late. U can!!

What is a Woman?

A woman is a beautifier, whatever she touches turn to gold and is blessed
A woman is a forgiver, she knows that God forgives us all our sins therefore she should forgive those who trespass against her

A woman is a multiplier,with R100 note in her purse she can sustain her family for some time
A woman is an innovator, she doesn’t just celebrate birthdays, she celebrates “rebirth days”

A woman is a creator, she never forgets that she is created in God’s image. She is in God and God is in her, now she has the power to create
A woman is a leader, she focuses on the vision, and she asks what could be? She align things, and motivate those around her
A women is a pioneer, she fosters a pioneering culture because she believes nothing is impossible

That’s
BT